What do you say?

Everything that I am about to tell you
depends are your answer to the
following question:
Who does the chasing?

should a girl silently sit by
and wait for a man
who might never see the obvious
should she guard herself against
affections from elsewhere
all the while secretly hoping
that he'll come around
maybe this time he'll ask

Or

should she stop playing coy
stop beating around the bush
just come out and say it and
change everything about the two of them forever

answer me this
does her heart break if
she in fact is the answer to
who does the chasing?